<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n\n\n\nThe rise in popularity of baby showers has come hand-in-hand with the question of whether men should or should not go. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
And if you are unsure whether or not men should be present at a baby shower, this article will help you make an informed decision about inviting men as well as whether or not you, as a male, should attend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Of course, if you are the host and would like men to attend, there is nothing wrong with inviting your male friends and family members. There is, after all, no hard rule against men attending, and men can attend if invited.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For males presented with the opportunity of attending a baby shower, however, the answer can depend on various factors, including the relationship between the mother-to-be and the guests, whether other men are attending, and, of course, whether a formal invite has been offered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So, men do go to baby showers. But if you are considering whether or not you should go, the following questions will help you arrive at an informed decision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am I Formally Invited?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\nBefore deciding whether or not to attend a baby shower, you need to know if you were invited. The invitation may come in several forms. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It could be as simple as a phone call from the mother-to-to-be saying that she would like to invite you to a shower, or it could be a formal invitation sent by mail.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you were not invited, it’s probably best to play it safe and not attend. This can lead to an awkward and uncomfortable environment – especially if you were not expected at the baby shower and, as a result, run the risk of being the only male in attendance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am I Close To The Mother-To-Be?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\nIf you are close to the mother-to-become, then it can be appropriate for you to attend. This can include if your partner is a close friend of the mother-to-be, or if the mother-to-be is, in fact, a close relation of yours, such as a sister.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Still, it would be worth confirming if you are invited and expected to attend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you are not close to the mother-to-be – in friendship or kinship – it can result in the other guests questioning your presence, as well as your reasoning behind attending. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
However, as mentioned, if your partner is close to the mother-to-be (even though you are not), it can be a passable excuse to attend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Do I Know The Guests?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\nSimilar to asking how close you are to the mother-to-be, it’s worth evaluating who might be at the baby shower. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
If the invited guests are your friends or close acquaintances, this can reduce the risk of awkwardness or uncomfortableness – even if you are the only male present.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Due to this, it’s important to ask who might be going, as being familiar with the other guests will make it easier to fit in, make conversation, and enjoy the celebration without causing everyone to feel on edge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n